WE NEED MORE THREADS ADDRESSING THIS - How do you go about asking people what their problems are?

I made these two posts a few days ago:

GOLD - Save Yourself Years Of Frustration; It Worked For Me!
GOLD - Save Yourself Years Of Frustration; It Worked For Me!

But I feel this question is deserving of its own...

WE NEED MORE THREADS ADDRESSING THIS - How do you go about asking people what their problems are?

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